Here is a quick SQL which I sometimes use to show people disks and their respective partners (grouped by a failure group) inside an ASM disk group every time I need to explain both of these concepts.
An example output from a quarter rack Exadata with a normal redundancy disk group:
SQL> column p format a80
SQL> variable group_number number
SQL> exec :group_number := 1;
PL/SQL procedure successfully completed.
SQL> select d||' => '||listagg(p, ',') within group (order by p) p
from (
select ad1.failgroup||'('||to_char(ad1.disk_number, 'fm000')||')' d,
ad2.failgroup||'('||listagg(to_char(p.number_kfdpartner, 'fm000'), ',') within group (order by ad1.disk_number)||')' p
from v$asm_disk ad1, x$kfdpartner p, v$asm_disk ad2
where ad1.disk_number = p.disk
and p.number_kfdpartner=ad2.disk_number
and ad1.group_number = p.grp
and ad2.group_number = p.grp
and p.grp = :group_number
group by ad1.failgroup, ad1.disk_number, ad2.failgroup
) group by d
order by d;
P
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EXAPCEL01(12) => EXAPCEL02(26,30,31,35),EXAPCEL03(06,08,09,11)
EXAPCEL01(13) => EXAPCEL02(30,31,34,35),EXAPCEL03(03,07,09,11)
EXAPCEL01(14) => EXAPCEL02(24,28,29,34),EXAPCEL03(05,09,10,11)
EXAPCEL01(15) => EXAPCEL02(28,29,33,34),EXAPCEL03(04,05,08,11)
EXAPCEL01(16) => EXAPCEL02(26,27,33,35),EXAPCEL03(02,06,07,09)
EXAPCEL01(17) => EXAPCEL02(25,32,33,35),EXAPCEL03(00,01,03,07)
EXAPCEL01(18) => EXAPCEL02(24,27,32,34),EXAPCEL03(00,03,08,10)
EXAPCEL01(19) => EXAPCEL02(25,26,32,33),EXAPCEL03(01,02,07,10)
EXAPCEL01(20) => EXAPCEL02(28,30,31,32),EXAPCEL03(04,05,06,10)
EXAPCEL01(21) => EXAPCEL02(24,27,29,31),EXAPCEL03(00,01,04,08)
EXAPCEL01(22) => EXAPCEL02(25,26,27,30),EXAPCEL03(02,03,04,06)
EXAPCEL01(23) => EXAPCEL02(24,25,28,29),EXAPCEL03(00,01,02,05)
EXAPCEL02(24) => EXAPCEL01(14,18,21,23),EXAPCEL03(05,07,09,11)
EXAPCEL02(25) => EXAPCEL01(17,19,22,23),EXAPCEL03(02,06,09,11)
EXAPCEL02(26) => EXAPCEL01(12,16,19,22),EXAPCEL03(04,08,10,11)
EXAPCEL02(27) => EXAPCEL01(16,18,21,22),EXAPCEL03(01,04,08,11)
EXAPCEL02(28) => EXAPCEL01(14,15,20,23),EXAPCEL03(00,06,08,09)
EXAPCEL02(29) => EXAPCEL01(14,15,21,23),EXAPCEL03(01,02,03,05)
EXAPCEL02(30) => EXAPCEL01(12,13,20,22),EXAPCEL03(04,05,08,10)
EXAPCEL02(31) => EXAPCEL01(12,13,20,21),EXAPCEL03(00,01,07,10)
EXAPCEL02(32) => EXAPCEL01(17,18,19,20),EXAPCEL03(00,06,07,10)
EXAPCEL02(33) => EXAPCEL01(15,16,17,19),EXAPCEL03(02,03,05,09)
EXAPCEL02(34) => EXAPCEL01(13,14,15,18),EXAPCEL03(02,03,04,07)
EXAPCEL02(35) => EXAPCEL01(12,13,16,17),EXAPCEL03(00,01,03,06)
EXAPCEL03(00) => EXAPCEL01(17,18,21,23),EXAPCEL02(28,31,32,35)
EXAPCEL03(01) => EXAPCEL01(17,19,21,23),EXAPCEL02(27,29,31,35)
EXAPCEL03(02) => EXAPCEL01(16,19,22,23),EXAPCEL02(25,29,33,34)
EXAPCEL03(03) => EXAPCEL01(13,17,18,22),EXAPCEL02(29,33,34,35)
EXAPCEL03(04) => EXAPCEL01(15,20,21,22),EXAPCEL02(26,27,30,34)
EXAPCEL03(05) => EXAPCEL01(14,15,20,23),EXAPCEL02(24,29,30,33)
EXAPCEL03(06) => EXAPCEL01(12,16,20,22),EXAPCEL02(25,28,32,35)
EXAPCEL03(07) => EXAPCEL01(13,16,17,19),EXAPCEL02(24,31,32,34)
EXAPCEL03(08) => EXAPCEL01(12,15,18,21),EXAPCEL02(26,27,28,30)
EXAPCEL03(09) => EXAPCEL01(12,13,14,16),EXAPCEL02(24,25,28,33)
EXAPCEL03(10) => EXAPCEL01(14,18,19,20),EXAPCEL02(26,30,31,32)
EXAPCEL03(11) => EXAPCEL01(12,13,14,15),EXAPCEL02(24,25,26,27)